“Women get two births: - Blessed or cursed?”

We almost all think and feel that women are more weak physically as well as mentally, emotional and sensitive in nature as compared to men. Whether we all want to admit or not, it is what we all feel in respect to our thinking or mentality. I also agree that women are emotional and sensitive when it comes to her relations and her loved ones. This is not at all anything bad according to my senses. It only shows that women are more caring, loving and understanding in nature as compared to men. It is her love and affection that makes her emotional & sensitive in case of her relations is concerned. But I totally disagree to accept that women are weaker in nature as compared to men. I feel women are stronger than men. The sacrifices woman can do in life, a man will not. Woman is a symbol of love, luck, care, happiness, affection, sacrifice, understanding, prosperity, togetherness, support etc. Women are full of understandings and do sacrifice a lot in life for her relations and for love than men. Who can never try to even attempt such things in life. A man can never be fully satisfied with his relations and life but women usually do always. She gets two births in a single life. First birth at a place where GOD has decided her to live with her blood relations and second birth at a place where she or her parents decided to marry her with all new relations of life and mold herself according to their preferences.

Firstly she learns all the cultures, customs, behaviors, favorites, traditions etc residing with her blood relations, sometime serve and sacrifice herself & ambitions for the family and relations associated with her without even letting them realize her sacrifices. After the first when she took second birth at her husband’s place, where she will be residing for her whole life have to repeat all again. Now this is the time when she has to start her life once again and has to sacrifice & understand everyone there at new place and mold herself accordingly. Also we as a parents always suggest & advice our daughters to adjust & understand to her full capacity at her new home. We all console her at the time of her leaving our house by advising her that, “daughter! Our house is not belongs to her ever in life, the real actual home of her is her husband’s house, where you will be residing forever, mark these words and never involve us in her family matters now on, please try to forget us.” In respect to that she never asks or complains about the same. She happily accepts the reality and ready for adjustments as well. Same happens at the time of her entering into husband’s house. When she again told by them to do all necessary adjustments and understandings here because she is new in the house & has to do adjustments with the family. The family will do a little adjustment possible but most of them should be from her side. Then again she happily accepts all and tries to mold herself. So it is not weakens show. Only those can do it, who are mentally strong enough and women do it everytime. So, how can we say that women are weaker than men.

We all should understand that women have very narrow world which starts from family and ends at family. This is the reason they are more emotional and sensitive than men. This is also one of the reasons that we all have misapprehension of believing women weak as compared to men. If anyone asks me of women then I will say, hats off to women from bottom of my heart and I sincerely mean it. We all should understand and respect her for all sacrifices, love and affection. We all must open our mind and eyes for not think and admire women as sex item only. Wake up! Wake up! Whenever I saw, came to know and heard some violence against women whether physically or mentally has happens, it scares and hurts me a lot. I start thanking GOD that it’s not my sister or daughter or relative. But, we should realize that she must be someone’s sister, daughter or relative. The lines which come in my mind is of Pahli Patshahi Guru Nanak Dev Ji’s wording on women misfortune are: -

"एह ती मार पई कुर्लाने

तें की दर्द न आया"

In the end, I request you all to please respect women. Stop this violence. Be gentle and nice to her. She is a living inspiration to all.

Mixed Quotes

A man should look for what is, and not for what he thinks should be. : -- Albert Einstein

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A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new. : -- Albert Einstein

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All men by nature desire knowledge. : -- Aristotle

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Bring you desires down to your present means. Increase them only when your increased means permit. : -- Aristotle

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Being ignorant is not so much a shame, as being unwilling to learn. : -- Benjamin Franklin

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By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail. : -- Benjamin Franklin

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Creditors have better memories than debtors. : -- Benjamin Franklin

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Applause is a receipt, not a bill. : -- Dale Carnegie

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First ask yourself: what is the worst that can happen? Then prepare to accept it. Then proceed to improve on the worst. : -- Dale Carnegie

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The pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love. : -- Friedrich Nietzsche

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Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. : -- Friedrich Nietzsche

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Always do whatever’s next. : -- George Carlin.

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Fighting for peace is like screwing for virginity. : -- George Carlin

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A good plan violently executed now is better than a perfect plan executed next week. : -- George S. Patton

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I don’t measure a man’s success by how high he climbs but how high he bounces when he hits bottom. : -- George S. Patton

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If everyone is thinking alike, then somebody isn’t thinking. : -- George S. Patton

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Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. : -- George Washington

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Experience teaches us that it is much easier to prevent an enemy from posting themselves than it is to dislodge them after they have got possession. : -- George Washington

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A man is rich in proportion to the number of things he can afford to let alone. : -- Henry David Thoreau

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All men are children, and of one family. The same tale sends them all to bed, and wakes them in the morning. : -- Henry David Thoreau

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All this wordly wisdom was once the unamiable heresy of some wise man. : -- Henry David Thoreau

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A bore is a person who opens his mouth and puts his feats in it. : -- Henry ford

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coming together is a beginning, keeping together is progress, working together is success. : -- Henry ford

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Be candid with everyone. : -- Jack Welch

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Change before you have to. : -- Jack Welch

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Control you own destiny or someone else will. : -- Jack Welch

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Face reality as it is, not as it was or you wish it to be. : -- Jack Welch

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Bend your views to the chart, not the charts to your view. Even castles made of sand, fall into the sea eventually. : -- Jimi Hendrix

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I try to use my music to move these people to act. : -- Jimi Hendrix

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I used to live in a room full of mirrors, all I could see was me. : -- Jimi Hendrix

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Abuse of words has been the great instrument of sophistry and chicanery, of party, faction, and division of society. : -- John Adams

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In politics the middle way is none at all. : -- John Adams

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Efforts and courage are not enough without purpose and direction. : -- John F. Kennedy

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Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names. : -- John F. Kennedy

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I don’t think the intelligence reports are all that hot. Some days I get more out of the new York times. : -- John F. Kennedy

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Adversity is the state in which man mostly easily becomes acquainted with himself, being especially free of admirers then. : -- John Wooden

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Don’t measure yourself by what you have accomplished, but by what you should have accomplished with your ability. : -- John Wooden

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Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be. : -- John Wooden

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If you don’t have time to do it right, when will you have time to do it over? : -- john wooden

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History repeats itself, first as tragedy, second as farce. : -- Karl Marx

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Be content to seem what you really are. : -- Marcus Aurelius

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Confine yourself to the present. : -- Marcus Aurelius

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A man is never more truthful than when he acknowledges himself a liar. : -- Mark Twain

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A man’s character may be learned from the objectives which he habitually uses in conversation. : -- Mark Twain

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Against the assault of laughter nothing can stand. : -- Mark Twain

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A lie cannot live. : -- Martin Luther King Jr.

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Everything that we see is a shadow cast by that which we do not see. : -- Martin Luther King Jr.

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He who hesitates is poor. : -- Mel Brooks

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I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed. : -- Michael Jordan

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The game is my wife. It demands loyalty and responsibility, and it gives me back fulfillment and peace. : -- Michael Jordan

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I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. : -- Mother Teresa

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If you can’t feed a hundred people, then feed just one. : -- Mother Teresa

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We always have misapprehension of believing ourself a king instead of time. : -- Nitin JP Talwar***

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Knowledge best gathered in challenge. : -- Nitin JP Talwar***

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Only those bonded innerly with GOD, can feel permanent contentment in life. : -- Nitin JP Talwar***

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Patience rewards best in adversity. : -- Nitin JP Talwar***

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Urge never dies but commonly patience does. All available quotes can make you accept the reality for while but not forever. : -- Nitin JP Talwar***

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Tears are always useful in hiding mistakes and proving oneself right. : -- Nitin JP Talwar***

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A person who always complaints of being not understand his/her own feelings can be misunderstanding others feeling too. : -- Nitin JP Talwar***

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There are only two ways in life to vindicate our self a nice human being:

# Get innerly connected with GOD, generous thinking and ever smiling face.

# The second way that we all adopt in life is to confound others in a way that we can prove our self right but always forget that this behavior will make the whole world ill. This way of proving nice is just delude. : -- Nitin JP Talwar***

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Sex is a intimated romance for strong bonding not only a discharge game. : -- Nitin JP Talwar***

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Life is a dream for the wise,

A game for the fool,

A comedy for the rich,

A tragedy for the poor. : -- Sholom Aleichem

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Every one is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it’s stupid. : -- Albert Einstein

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The two most important days in your life:

Are the day you are born,

And the day you find out WHY? : -- Mark Twain

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You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you doesn’t try. : -- Beverly Skills

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You have enemies? Good.

That means you’ve stood up for something in your life. : -- Sir Winston Churchill

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Replace fear of the unknown with curiosity.

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The deepest rivers flow with the least sound.

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Being happy doesn’t mean everything is perfect. It means you’ve decided to see beyond the imperfections.

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Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass…… it’s about learning to dance in the rain.

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Three simple rules:

1. If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it.

2. If you don’t ask, the answer will always be no.

3 If you don’t step forward, you will always be in the same spot.

So go for what you want, ask questions and take that one step forward because you never know where it might lead.

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You are stronger than you seem,

Braver than you believe,

And smarter than you think you are.

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Doing what you like is freedom,

Liking what you do is happiness.

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You are a victim of the rules you live by.

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Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius, and its better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.

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Apologizing: does not always mean you are wrong and the other person is right.

It just means you value your relationship more than your ego.

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“Patience Will Pay”

Patience or forbearing is the state of endurance under difficult circumstances. This word is commonly used by dear one’s or well wishers to console others under difficult circumstances or in time of adversity. It is always helpful as a motivation to release the undue pressure. “Have Patience! Patience will pay” the first motivating lines used by us to console others and helping them to overcome any adverse situation and to release the pressure to work & think positively now on. So, we can say that very useful lines to shorten some burden or release some pressure to act wisely. Any one who is facing any financial instability or uncertainty, physical weakness, mental turbulence or imbalance, personal family disturbance, professional incompetency etc are always consoled by well wishers in a same way to have patience, time will change everything and your patience will pay. Very truly patience is a key to success. But having patience and doing nothing will never result in success but will always ends in desperation. So, I have tried to positively complete this quote by adding few words afterwards. Although the quote is extremely positive and optimistic in nature but I have added few lines to make it realistic bitter motivational quote. Following is the change I have made to the statement:-

“Patience will pay, only when you are trying otherwise patience pays for what!”

As it is very clear from my composition that patience will definitely rewards back, it is never like wasting the time but only on one condition of continuously working on projected target. Lying idle, doing nothing and still hoping that my patience should reward me back as I am waiting from quite long time is totally thinking crap. Patience doesn’t mean lying idle but still thinking positively that my patience will pay. Patience mean constant efforts toward the desired aim without being aggressive, sad, short tempered, adamant, hopeless and pessimistic on the way to achievement. The time we think patience as a waiting period instead of working or effort period is the time of patience converting into a sheer desperation. That is the time we loose real hope, that is the time we accept our failure permanently, that is the time we start thinking pessimistically, that is the time of volatile behavior, that is the time of irritating nature, that is the we hate life and world around us, that is the time we have a heart full grudges for GOD. Efforts are positively correlated with patience as patience with success.

Basically patience is strength and it never dies. If it dies in desperation then it is not patience. It is a revolt against an almighty power to grant in favor of us. It is not like giving time to ourselves to work in accordance to our desired aim rather giving time to GOD by praying and pleasing him everytime to grant in favor of us. For more clarifications, if we imagine we are standing at one shore of the river and our aim is next opposite shore of the river means to cross the river. We are also blessed a paddle boat by the grace of GOD to reach the next shore. But now if we only sit still in a boat and don’t want to put any efforts, not even try to move a single paddle but still keeping our patience intact for the wait of a wave in a right direction to reach our desired aim (shore) is not called patience rather it is dependence on nature (uncontrollable events). You never know it will happen or not. If yes, then when will it happen or how it will happen. If no, then it ends in desperation. Also we never know where this wave can lead us but surely not exactly on our desired aim. If we surely want to reach or achieve our desired aim, then we have to put lot of efforts while keeping our patience intact and maintaining our focus & light temperament to overcome every adverse situation very calmly in between to reach our final destination. So in a nutshell, we all should understand the real meaning of patience as an effort period rather than wait period to act calmly and continuously by keeping our nerves in positive control to achieve our desired aim.