Monday, January 11, 2010


Motivation is needed to live a healthy, happy life as same as body needs motion to move. So, motivation is like an oil of the man’s engine for smooth driving of a life’s car. Every one has a self – motivation. Motivation can be of anything. For some source of motivation can be money, cars, girls, sex, good food and better standard of living, name & Fame, big bungalows, Mobiles, Hi- Tech bikes, Flourishing Parties, Disco’s etc all of them work hard to get these objectives of their own. Some have little objectives to achieve but some have big objectives in life but all worked in that direction to achieve them. They will all work towards their stream. Main thing is they are motivated towards to get these things by working hard. They will always think and talk about their objectives. I must say that all we think as our dreams are nothing but our motivation to get them to work on that path. What ever our dreams are, we tend to work on them to achieve them. That is nothing but a motivation in our life to continue living like a unsatisfied human beings. I always encountered that, “satisfaction is temporary but greed is permanent in life.” The very time when you achieve one of your dream then right to the next moment one another dream comes to your mind. This does not let you think that it is the end of life. Now obviously you came to know that motivation is an oil of life which does not let you end your life. But with due respect from all of you people, I want to convey one suggestion that,” Patience is the key in a motivated life.” We all cannot achieve our motivated goals because we are not that much lucky but we can work hard towards that path with patience in our mind. That will not let us feel bored from life.

Now I’ll share a true story with all of you motivated people. It is a story of 15 years old boy. Who wants to be successful in life, who wants Name & Fame in life. It was this motivation that does not let him feel satisfied in life. He started working towards his motivation from the age of 15. He tried many times but in vain. At every setback, he can be de-motivated for few minutes, few hours, few days but not for much time. When again he thinks about his dream at the very next time he is motivated more than before to make his dreams true. But one key he has in his mind is Patience, to wait and watch for right & true situation to come to make his dreams true, to make his efforts to be converted into reality. He heard one proverb that,” Success only comes when preparation meets opportunity.” Now it has been couple of years, he still not make his dreams true but he is motivated lot more than he is at 15 years to achieve his goals. Name & Fame is his motivation that does not let him think satisfied to stop living life and obviously whenever he’s gonna achieve his dreams than at very next moment he will start thinking of undesired still now dreams.

All of us are motivated at something in our mind to achieve like a simple motivation which does not let you die is whenever a child born he started thinking of becoming young, in younger age he is thinking of getting married, when he is married he starts thinking of having a baby, when he is blessed with baby he starts thinking of his education & securing his future, when that baby becomes young he starts thinking of his marriage, when he is married then he will start thinking of seeing the face of his grand child etc. this motivation never let him to think of his death, Which he never wants to come. This is how a motivation works to live happy & busy life and positively think about future time.

So, in a nutshell, everyone should be positively motivated. The source of motivation should be positive mind. Whatever we think unconsciously, we have the ability and motivation to make it not always true but something nearer to reality.


Wednesday, January 06, 2010

Realty: - Open eye dreams needs open mind to become reality otherwise dreams remain dreams.

One big reality of life is dreams and will they come true or just remain dreams is the big question? Here I am talking about open eye dreams. Dreams are what we think to get in future life. Dreams are what who makes ourselves happy. Everyone in this world have different kinds of dreams. No one is in this world, who don’t have dreams except only insane. Different people have different dreams but a common dream of all the people of world is to become Rich & Famous in life. I must say there are only few from trillions who don’t think to become rich and famous. Almost every person has this dream at one corner of his heart. Who so ever a person denies the fact for the feeling of becoming rich and famous but in reality one and another corner of his heart has the dream to get lots of money and fame. But only few from them can fulfill or achieve their dreams. Some of them put all the efforts to achieve their dream or many of them leaves all to the GOD. Isn’t it foolish? That dream is yours but the needed effort has to be done by the God. God can only give mental or moral strength but the effort is all yours. Everyone saw some dreams but only few achieves them the reason for not achieving their dreams is that they put 100% of their efforts to dream about but the needed effort or output to make dreams a reality is not 100% by all the people. Most of them leave everything to god that he only can make the dreams come true and our duty is to only wait and watch. How amusing? They just want to do their normal routine of putting efforts according to their normal earnings and nothing more than that to make dreams come true. The effort is nothing but the dream is still intact try to console himself to have patience have patience. But let me tell you all the people thinking the same that Patience will pay only when you are trying otherwise patience pays for what? I have heard lot of people saying that it all depends upon luck to get anything in life. I agree! But can you tell me that without any effort or output what your luck proves to be. Common saying is that luck and God help those who help themselves. Only thinking of the dreams can’t help you to achieve them, it needs lot of effort and hard work. I do agree with the sayings that some people have good luck they always get with the grace of god whatever they want in life. But it is like firing in a dark, if it hits then well and very good otherwise hard luck. So, I am agreeing that exceptions are always there and I am also not saying that those who always put 100% of their efforts to achieve their dreams are successful. They can also lag behind but the reason is not bad luck. It is because some how, some where they did choose a wrong step. Those who come to know that will one day surely get success. So according to me, if you have some dreams to fulfill them the path is not easy. One has to work very hard and put 100% of their effort always. No careless is awarded and learn from your mistakes instead of get dishearten. Life never gives second same chance. So, make most of the first chance.